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National Cheeseburger Day
Thursday September 18th
Come grab a giant juicy cheeseburger for National Cheeseburger Day Sept 18th!
11:00 AM - 02:00 AM
Ballroom Lessons with Lilith Stargazer
Thursday September 18th
Every Thursday
Seeking a safe and inclusive space to learn Ballroom Dancing? Lilith Stargazer offers classes every Thursday at Sidewinders! $10 per class. Class starts at 6 PM and it's open to everyone!
06:00 PM - 07:00 PM
Simone Karaoke
Thursday September 18th
Monthly on every third Thursday
Join Simone every first and third Thursday for karaoke!
09:00 PM - 02:00 AM
Fantasy Friday
Friday September 19th
Every Friday
Fantasy Fridays Ready to live your fantasy? Whether you’re a drag queen, king, thing, comedian, dancer, or it’s your first time in glam — the open stage is YOURS! Join us every Friday from 7p–9p at Sidewinders Bar & Grill for a fierce, fun-filled night hosted by the fabulous ViLette Stratton Featuring weekly special guest performers and a spotlight on YOU. Open stage starts August 8th Wanna perform? Sign-ups drop every Monday at 1pm on ViLette’s IG story: @vilettestratton Come feel your fantasy, baby.07:00 PM - 09:00 PM
Drag Out HIV - Red Light Special
Friday September 19th
🎉 Red Light Special 🎉
MPower’s Drag OUT HIV presents their brand new monthly revue show and dance party! Every third Friday of the month!
✨ What to Expect:
💿 Two dance parties at once!
• In the Main Bar: our resident DJ, The Collective
• In the Cabaret: guest DJ M. Martinez
👠 Drag Show: The show kicks off at 10:00 PM
🎶 Dance Party: Starts at 9:00 PM and goes all night
💸 Cover: FREE – no excuses, just come ready to dance!
Don’t miss out on this new monthly tradition – where community, music, and drag collide under the red light. 🌟
09:00 PM - 02:00 AM
Rush Party - Gogo Dance Night
Saturday September 20th
09:00 PM - 02:00 AM
Football Sunday
Sunday September 21st
Every Sunday
Football Sunday is back!!! Join us every Sunday for the day games on 4 screens!
02:00 PM - 06:00 PM
Underwear Night
Sunday September 21st
Every Sunday
Join us every Sunday night for Underwear Night! Featuring DJ Kuwani! 9pm - NO COVER
09:00 PM - 02:00 AM
Toby Tuesday
Tuesday September 23rd
Every Tuesday
Join us for a fun night of Karaoke, delicious Cocktails and a wide selection of mocktails! With your host Michael Lynn Herts and KJ Papas you’re bound to have a good time!!!
09:00 PM - 02:00 AM
Wednesday Night Karaoke
Wednesday September 24th
Every Wednesday
Join us on Wednesday for karaoke featuring our new KJ Sunny Marmalade!
04:00 PM - 06:00 PM
Pup Night
Thursday September 25th
Join Duke City Pups for their monthly pup night - this no cover event includes moshing, a pup pit, a chance for you to meet local pups, and learn more about the pup play community
Karaoke too!
No cover!
09:00 PM - 11:30 PM
National Drink Beer Day
Sunday September 28th
Join us for National Drink Beer Day on Sept 28th and try one of our many craft brews!
11:00 AM - 02:00 AM
Simone Karaoke
Thursday October 2nd
Monthly on every first Thursday
Join Simone every first and third Thursday for karaoke!
09:00 PM - 02:00 AM
Little Shop of Stoners
Friday October 3rd
08:00 PM - 02:00 AM
National Taco Day
Saturday October 4th
As if we needed an excuse... join us for National Taco Day October 4th!
11:00 AM - 02:00 AM
ONYX Gear Night
Saturday October 4th
🎃 October – Pumpkin Bottoms 📍 Sidewinders S4200, ABQ Eagle 📅 Saturday, October 4th | ⏰ 9PM–Close 💵 NO COVER Sweet, round, and full of temptation — orange you glad it’s spanking season? Show off your best side or bring the hands that adore them. Leather, latex, bar-legal jockstraps, or your favorite gear — bring the heat and keep it flirty. Don’t miss the rest of the night’s action: • 🎧 DJ Kuwani – Bringing the heat with house & dance• 🔥 Kink/BDSM Demos & Tastings – Explore new sensations • 🛍️ Vendors: Gearwerks & NM Custom Leather – Treat yourself to fresh gear & kink• 📺 Backroom videos + Leather & Kink Trivia on all TVs (X-/R+) • 🍔 Bartender specials & hot food from the grill Gear is not required—but whether you’re in leather, pup gear, sports kit, fetish wear, furry gear, or just rockin’ your street clothes, your presence matters. This space is open to the entire LGBTQ+, kink, and leather communities—including anyone curious or new to the scene. We welcome all sexualities, all gender expressions, and all (bar-legal) kink and fetish interests. Education and mentorship are at the heart of what we do—so come vibe, learn, and grow with us. ✨ Come out and discover what ONYX is all about at our monthly gear night—an evening rooted in queer camaraderie, mentorship, and community. FREE PARKING • DRINK & SHOT SPECIALS • NO COVERFOOD MENU AVAILABLE • INDOOR-OUTDOOR SEATING 9:00 PM to Close (Mountain Time) Sidewinders S4200 & ABQ Eagle4200 Central Ave SE, Albuquerque, NM 87108 #ONYXGearNight #PumpkinBottoms #KinkWithConsent #ABQLeatherScene #SpankingSeason #ONYXHighDesert #LeatherLife #FlagItProud #ConfidenceInKink
09:00 PM - 02:00 AM
Royal Karaoke
Thursday October 9th
Monthly on every second Thursday
Join us for Karaoke with Royal! Every 2nd and 4th Thursday of the Month
09:00 PM - 02:00 AM
Halloween
Friday October 31st
Bring your best costume and join us on Halloween!
11:00 AM - 02:00 AM
Thanksgiving
Thursday November 27th
Bring your friends and family by on Thanksgiving Day for a celebratory feast!