- Events -

Every Tuesday

Join us for a fun night of Karaoke, delicious Cocktails and a wide selection of mocktails! With your host Michael Lynn Herts and KJ Papas you’re bound to have a good time!!!

Every Wednesday

Join us on Wednesday for karaoke featuring our new KJ Sunny Marmalade!

Every Thursday

Seeking a safe and inclusive space to learn Ballroom Dancing? Lilith Stargazer offers classes every Thursday at Sidewinders! $10 per class. Class starts at 6 PM and it's open to everyone!

Monthly on every first Thursday

Join Simone every first and third Thursday for karaoke!

Every Friday

Get ready for this DELICIOUS SHOW!!! You've been waiting for this show for a minute!!!! Join us sept 5th for midnight snack!!!

Low Sensory Leather Social (LSLS) Want to get back to Leather & alternative community social time without the late hours and loud environments? We're seeking a back-to basic earlier, low-volume social, open to the entire Kink and Leather communities, so you can get out early and meet new and old friends. Low Sensory Leather Social (LSLS) is an opportunity for those in the leather, BDSM, and alternative communities to have a low-key, relaxing social held earlier in the day, conversation-enabling, with sober-aware drink options. LSLS may occur just before later, louder events, allowing you to come earlier and decide how long to stay. This event welcomes the entire kink and leather communities, other organizations, including all sexualities, gender expressions and kink/fetish interests, that want to chat and explore. Gather in any attire, vanilla, casual leather, and gear of any kind (bar legal) to experience and learn more about leather and kink. What to expect? Each night may be different since change can be fun. We will have informal conversations. An event board with sicky notes will be available for you to write down and display other events you know about in the community. Announcements may be made about coming events. Name tags will be available for optional use if you’d like to help others remember your name. Some events may include a short speaker session. Event Features (check back as we update this) - Free raffle for leather item of your choice. - Kink & Leather History, Trivia, Humor videos playing on big screens. - Optional LSLS nametags - We can have one or two flash-talks (15 min or less). - List or announce your event for others to see on sticky notes. - Kinky Mocktails (no alcohol) available - Bootblack: (not sure this time) - Vendors: (not sure this time) - Cigar Time on the patio - organize your own Cigar time with others. Location Our location for this event is Sidewinders S4200, ABQ Eagle, in the Cabaret Room. Restricted to 21+ years old. This location features free parking, Kinky mocktails, drink & shot specials, with no cover. There is a food menu available as well as indoor-outdoor seating. Sidewinders Bar & Grill, Cabaret & ABQ Eagle 4200 Central Ave SE, Albuquerque, NM 87108 Make sure to check out the Kinky Mocktails! Time for this event is is 7:00 pm MT to 9:00 MT. Our event will feed into another Onyx Gear Night happening that evening 9 pm onward. Stay longer if you wish!

Every Sunday

Join us every Sunday night for Underwear Night! Featuring DJ Kuwani! 9pm - NO COVER

Monthly on every second Thursday

Join us for Karaoke with Royal! Every 2nd and 4th Thursday of the Month

Come grab a giant juicy cheeseburger for National Cheeseburger Day Sept 18th!

Monthly on every third Thursday

Join Simone every first and third Thursday for karaoke!

Join us for National Drink Beer Day on Sept 28th and try one of our many craft brews!

As if we needed an excuse... join us for National Taco Day October 4th!

🎃 October – Pumpkin Bottoms 📍 Sidewinders S4200, ABQ Eagle 📅 Saturday, October 4th | ⏰ 9PM–Close 💵 NO COVER Sweet, round, and full of temptation — orange you glad it’s spanking season? Show off your best side or bring the hands that adore them. Leather, latex, bar-legal jockstraps, or your favorite gear — bring the heat and keep it flirty. Don’t miss the rest of the night’s action: • 🎧 DJ Kuwani – Bringing the heat with house & dance• 🔥 Kink/BDSM Demos & Tastings – Explore new sensations • 🛍️ Vendors: Gearwerks & NM Custom Leather – Treat yourself to fresh gear & kink• 📺 Backroom videos + Leather & Kink Trivia on all TVs (X-/R+) • 🍔 Bartender specials & hot food from the grill Gear is not required—but whether you’re in leather, pup gear, sports kit, fetish wear, furry gear, or just rockin’ your street clothes, your presence matters. This space is open to the entire LGBTQ+, kink, and leather communities—including anyone curious or new to the scene. We welcome all sexualities, all gender expressions, and all (bar-legal) kink and fetish interests. Education and mentorship are at the heart of what we do—so come vibe, learn, and grow with us. ✨ Come out and discover what ONYX is all about at our monthly gear night—an evening rooted in queer camaraderie, mentorship, and community. FREE PARKING • DRINK & SHOT SPECIALS • NO COVERFOOD MENU AVAILABLE • INDOOR-OUTDOOR SEATING 9:00 PM to Close (Mountain Time) Sidewinders S4200 & ABQ Eagle4200 Central Ave SE, Albuquerque, NM 87108 #ONYXGearNight #PumpkinBottoms #KinkWithConsent #ABQLeatherScene #SpankingSeason #ONYXHighDesert #LeatherLife #FlagItProud #ConfidenceInKink

Bring your best costume and join us on Halloween!

Bring your friends and family by on Thanksgiving Day for a celebratory feast!